Hotel Room Massage
Hotel room massage Las Vegas, these days most people know that sex during an in-room massage is not a reasonable expectation. Massage therapists are highly trained professionals who offer therapeutic treatment. But some customers think if they offer a big enough tip, they might get lucky because they are in the privacy of their hotel room, without the spa setting to remind them of the boundaries.
An in-room massage is not a sensual massage and doesn’t involve any sexual contact, “extras” or “happy endings“. You follow the same rules of etiquette that you would in any spa—you don’t get dressed or undressed in front of the therapist, you don’t expect or ask for sexual contact, and you don’t cross the boundaries of the therapeutic relationship in any way.
What Happens During an In-Room Massage
Massage therapist arrives for an in-room massage within 30 mins after booking is confirmed. They ask about areas that need work or health problems you are experiencing and then give you time to disrobe. After giving you the massage, they give you privacy again to put your robe or clothes back on.
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Reasons for an In-Room Massage
Sometimes the hotel has its own spa but the guest would rather get a massage in their room. Often these customers are business travelers who are short on time or request a massage outside of regular spa hours. Sometimes it’s a celebrity who doesn’t want to mingle.
Establishing Expectations for the In-Room Massage
Problems more commonly arise, as they did in a well-known massage scandal when the hotel doesn’t have its own spa but relies on outside massage therapists who come to the room. There is no spa, the guest is going through the concierge, and the massage therapist can’t assess the guest’s language and behavior on the phone.
“I always articulate that this is a therapeutic massage, that it is not sensual, that it doesn’t have anything in the realm of sexual contact, and if they have any expectation of anything else, they should call someone else,” says Natasha Althouse, a New York state licensed massage therapist. “I ask them, ‘Do you understand that?’ You have to be that explicit.” For her, red flags are long silences, and not saying who referred them.
What You Should Know About In-Room Massage
The most important things about having an in-room massage are managing expectations and keeping good boundaries.
- The words therapeutic massage are always an indicator that the massage is for health purposes, with no “extras.”
- Massage therapists are more vulnerable in someone’s hotel room than they are in a spa, so don’t be surprised if they spell out that it’s a therapeutic massage. Be considerate of their need for safety.
- If the concierge set it up for you, it’s a therapeutic massage.
- Asking for or initiating sexual contact during a therapeutic massage is not only rude, but it is also illegal sexual harassment.
- If you ask for sexual contact or behave in a sexual way, the therapist has the right to, and should, stop the massage right there.